Sociality is a very developed thing in our daily life. Nobody wants to be a hateful one; as a result, everybody wants to be a lovely one. I would like to write about the best keys of sociality in the our society only from my viewpoint. I would like to shed the light on some samples in this situation.


The first key is very important and it has to be controlled well. It is time because you need time to be a social one. If you divide your time suitably, you will have time to achieve many important things in your social life. You have to control your work, friendship, and your life with your family. Moreover, you need time to the second key, so what is the second key?


The second key is communication and how to communicate. Phone is not the only means of communication nowadays. There are many other things like fax, internet, and mobile phone. For example, if you are sitting with your family talking about something important and the phone rings, you may have to speak in another subject. Imagine that you check your e-mail up ; you may find your sender tells you about other subjects. I think that if you have the ability in your social life, you will easily use your mind to communicate with all of them.


The third key is treating, and it is a very good thing in sociality. People are not always happy, and not always sad. You can clearly notice that there are many happy people in their day, but other is not. You so; therefore, you have to choose the best sentences in both happiness and sadness. In Homs, people are so passionate. For example, if there are some Arab nations suffer in wars, death of a very important person, or a damage of our local team, you find them so angry and sad. On the contrary if our team achieves the victory, you will find them so happy and joyful.


Sociality needs you not to be a talkative one; it needs you to be a co-operative . You have to leave your mate talks and expresses whatever he wants . Try always to be patient with all your people , I mean laugh , help, co-operate, and make friendship relationship without business of your work and family . Remember always : " There is no real achievement without a calm and a clever mind ." There are many other keys in this situation like devotion and honesty .


In short , if you know these points, and you do their honestly , you will be a good social person .

SaFwat HanOuF
Winter 2005

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Well done Safwat...!!
you know??my mum always says that I'm not a social person..I spend my time in my room reading,drowing, and browsing Internet...
but the most important thing that we should remember when we want to be social is treatment as you said..
I think that good manners are the most important thing that we must care about in communicating with the others..
Don't also forget smiling

..........What an essay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! go ahead Safwat

you may have to speak about another subject

but others are not

you so? i guess u wrote that by mistake . "therefore" is enough
if i were u, i would have written it like this:
For example, when some Arab nations suffer from wars , important persons die, or our local team losses a match (game) ,you find them angry and sad. On the other hand, when our team wins a match , everybody is happy and joyful.
Sociality doesn't require a much talkative person.In fact,one has to be co-operative.
either a friendship or a relationship , u can't put them together
for me i would say:
........, and defer between ur friendships on the one hand and ur business and family on the other hand.
Always remember
if you know these points, and practice them honestly..

i will add one more point ,plz
it's to say whatever ur listener wants or likes to hear
thus ,i assure u ,u'll be "the lovely guy"!!

thank you safwat

Safwat, Thank you so much Safwat