A turning point in your life

أندلسية · **مرسل:** السبت أغسطس 29, 2009 1:55 am

All people've good qualities beside many bad ones, good habits in addition to negative ones. Disregarding of how we consider this is good or bad in the philosophical terms, I'm suggesting in this post to talk about some of our experiences ,in critical times or even in the natural flow of life, when we come to this negative side of our behavior and say NO MORE.
I'd like to talk about these turning points that change our line in life partially or completely. Lately,every tow, three, ten..subscribers help or put mutual plan to help each other in a particular problem.thus, we create "turning points" that may create a better life or mode to many of of us who miss the advisor or even the listener.
For example, someone hope to give up smoking & let's image him or her awaiting that one who has the same problem & put hands in hands to achieve a" turning point" after a mutual plan for it in this post.

Today, I'll speak about one of my problems which is:
I miss conciliation with myself; in other words, I don't feel content whatever I do! This is the first thing. The second problem I'd like to share with you in this post is that I don't Know how to deal with, or even get along, "men". I don't know how they consider life, and "girls".
So now, anyone of you who's any of the above problems and has some suggestions for them, s\he'll be welcomed to post them here.

I hope you get the idea of this post and like it….Some may participate with putting here just their past experiences for a relating subject.

Odysseus · **مرسل:** الاثنين أغسطس 31, 2009 12:32 am

Andaluseyya, thank you very much for the topic. It is nice and interesting

اقتباس:

The second problem I'd like to share with you in this post is that I don't Know how to deal with, or even get along, "men". I don't know how they consider life, and "girls".

So, if you "don't know how they consider life, and 'girls' " what do you suggest in order to know them??
You can ask some questions to "men" here, and they will answer them, honestly; and in this way you will get a hint about "how they think".

Good Luck

Osama · **مرسل:** الاثنين أغسطس 31, 2009 3:00 am

أندلسية,
really it is very interesting topic. [quote]
I miss conciliation with myself; in other words, I don't feel content whatever I do! This is the first thing.
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because all of us wants more and and looks forward to the best.
[quote]
I don't Know how to deal with, or even get along, "men". I don't know how they consider life, and "girls".
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I think that this is problem from you.... you disin't choose the right man.
we consider girls as people we have to deal with them to complete our life, no one can complete his life faraway girls, but each one of us deals with girls in different ways according to his veiws about them.
I hope that you got a hint about this problem

قاسم عيسى · **مرسل:** الاثنين أغسطس 31, 2009 8:45 pm

Nice idea
By the way, the more you live the more you understand.
If we look for the point, we find it, no matter how long, far, big, small, etc.

For me, my turning point is, from life I found out, that women are worst creatures ever existed if they work.

Women for me are: poets, authors, singers, artists, dramatist.
In other words I discoveres that women and leadership like this;
Women + Leadership = Tyranny

The tyranny of women is deathly.

I hope I share you my tunring point about women in work.

For the question about MEN

It depends on every man in particular.
I know, religious men, bad men, rediculious men, shallow men, smart men, etc

But in general men are differ from women, like water to fire.

أندلسية · **مرسل:** الثلاثاء سبتمبر 01, 2009 1:59 am

thanks all, Ala Al-Ibrahim, Osama, & قاسم عيسى

It is worthwhile to read your replies.

اقتباس:

So, if you "don't know how they consider life, and 'girls' " what do you suggest in order to know them??

I couldn't get what do you mean by this; I wish you've not misunderstood the idea of my post, anyway.

اقتباس:

You can ask some questions to "men" here, and they will answer them, honestly; and in this way you will get a hint about "how they think".

Oh! I think it 'll turn into a stereotyped episode of the sort we know exactly and this's what I don't want here. Let this post be about a particular a refined subject to exchange reasonable ideas & solutions, thu I know we'r not all of the same "informational" level …..anyway I won't puzzle you with more niceties from the first reply…
just I wanna say thanks thu that "Good Luck " was somehow strange.

اقتباس:

that women are worst creatures ever existed if they work.

I share you some of what you've said but I WONDER HOW IT COMES ..WOMEN TO BE poets, authors, singers, artists, dramatist WITHOUT BEING WORKERS OUTDOORS !

I'm very interested with what you'said all..

I 'm going to enrich this reply yet more couple days…I'm waiting your voices

أندلسية · **مرسل:** السبت سبتمبر 05, 2009 5:36 pm

Hi guys,
Since I haven't heard any voice from you, I'll simplified the content more hoping you'll taste it and get use of it more &more; at the same time I wish my language not to be of such a difficulty for you.
I've said that I miss conciliation with myself whatever I do,

اقتباس:

because all of us wants more and and looks forward to the best

Yes, it is. But what do you advise me if I say that I' m always worry about my doing,whatever I'm doing, is it "perfect" here? I mean in every single action I made. Do you have personally such an experience when "you" put yourself under the pressure of being "perfect" as you have all the requirements of being so ,for instance, a great ideology rooted in your blood and a very good life in terms of material standards? This's my problem which keeps me at war with myself as I'm always , and should be, looking forward.
For the second problem, I want to appointed a case. A man has convincing morals reflecting well in his behavior, but he behaves badly with "bad" women. How do you understand this feature stuck in many ,if not most, Arab men particularly?...good with the good only and bad with what they themselves consider bad? Doesn't anyone of you see this contradiction in the "men" of our time?

قاسم عيسى · **مرسل:** السبت سبتمبر 19, 2009 3:20 pm

Perfection, only for God in heaven.

Unfortunately some ladies and women and men, here in our society think that perfection can be attained.

If you are believer in God, so you must know that perfection for God only, and for human being, the way you think before you do some actions, or after, it relates to the personality itself, and this thing came from the way you lived with your family from traditions and way of everyday life, also the society which watchs like radar, plays a big role that makes your personality this way.
I am not talking about you in particular, but about this kind of worrying and watching our behaviors and way of talking, and also our life completely.

For me, I can tell you, if you know yourself well, you do not need to watch up your actions and your whole life.
I know ladies in our society suffer alot, because society watchs them (HER) in every single and small deeds, actions, words, job, clothes, way of walking, her voice, etc. And yeah this reason that play a role in driving you to worry about everything to be perfect.

Second point.
Ya my sister, do not forget, that every man is a sole creature, not all men the same.
For example, this man is good, he is good with good lady, and ignoring bad lady.
Another man is bad with good lady and good with bad lady, and for this example I know a man who does this.

So please do not waste your time in this

Nawal8q · **مرسل:** الخميس سبتمبر 24, 2009 3:21 am

Hi to you all
I have a word to say about what you call "Perfection"
No one comes to this life knowing everything s/he should learn, he comes as a blank page and then everything in this life teach him/her something new. Every single thing in this world is designed to give us a different conception, a different view to this life and so on. But not all the people understand something in the same way, they differ in their perception for things and this created the difference amongst us. For example the bride in our culture wears white dress to refer to pureness and clean, but if she do so in India she will be laughed at because the colour white is for the dead and when a bride wears white to her wedding this will bring her bad luck and her marriage will be doomed to end soon, that's why the bride in there wears red, for red is the colour of youth and power and burning flames.
What I want to say is that we differ even in our perception for what is right and what is wrong, no one really can tell the difference. What's right here is wrong there so I believe that everyone can create his own perception for things, so s/he must do the thing that s/he fears in order to learn right and wrong and this comes only from mistakes. Yes, don't be afraid to commit mistakes, don't be afraid of doing wrong things, you will learn your lesson and never do it again.

Odysseus · **مرسل:** الخميس سبتمبر 24, 2009 3:45 am

Nawal8q,

اقتباس:

No one comes to this life knowing everything s/he should learn, he comes as a blank page and then everything in this life teach him/her something new. Every single thing in this world is designed to give us a different conception, a different view to this life and so on. But not all the people understand something in the same way, they differ in their perception for things and this created the difference amongst us. For example the bride in our culture wears white dress to refer to pureness and clean, but if she do so in India she will be laughed at because the colour white is for the dead and when a bride wears white to her wedding this will bring her bad luck and her marriage will be doomed to end soon, that's why the bride in there wears red, for red is the colour of youth and power and burning flames.
What I want to say is that we differ even in our perception for what is right and what is wrong, no one really can tell the difference. What's right here is wrong there so I believe that everyone can create his own perception for things, so s/he must do the thing that s/he fears in order to learn right and wrong and this comes only from mistakes. Yes, don't be afraid to commit mistakes, don't be afraid of doing wrong things, you will learn your lesson and never do it again.

Great Nawal, Great. May Allah belss you! You said nothing but the truth. This is life and we MUST understand this fact very well.
You deserve a rose for each word.

أندلسية · **مرسل:** الأحد سبتمبر 27, 2009 12:11 am

Hello
Nawal:
I'm grateful to you for your post; I always read your posts eagerly as you're stuck in my mind as a nice little "book-worm"

I usually follow my own thoughts in your posts & replies. God bless you!
Thanks again قاسم عيسى,
and
Ala Al-Ibrahim,
I wanna talk about our ambitions at the beginning of this crucial academic year.
What do you think?

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