Perfection, only for God in heaven.
Unfortunately some ladies and women and men, here in our society think that perfection can be attained.
If you are believer in God, so you must know that perfection for God only, and for human being, the way you think before you do some actions, or after, it relates to the personality itself, and this thing came from the way you lived with your family from traditions and way of everyday life, also the society which watchs like radar, plays a big role that makes your personality this way.
I am not talking about you in particular, but about this kind of worrying and watching our behaviors and way of talking, and also our life completely.
For me, I can tell you, if you know yourself well, you do not need to watch up your actions and your whole life.
I know ladies in our society suffer alot, because society watchs them (HER) in every single and small deeds, actions, words, job, clothes, way of walking, her voice, etc. And yeah this reason that play a role in driving you to worry about everything to be perfect.
Second point.
Ya my sister, do not forget, that every man is a sole creature, not all men the same.
For example, this man is good, he is good with good lady, and ignoring bad lady.
Another man is bad with good lady and good with bad lady, and for this example I know a man who does this.
So please do not waste your time in this